So.. It's been a minute.
How are you? How is this isolation pandemic bullshit treating you?
Can I tell you one thing I have learned? There is not one person from my dating history that I can honestly say I could have spent these last few months with. How terrible is that? I'm meaning, day in - day out, together 24 hours a day.
Nope.
But it's made me realize that maybe I'm just not cut out for it. I'm not the "Glued to the hip" kinda girl. I like the 'you do your thing, I do mine' thing. I couldn't imagine living with someone again. Except Spawn of course, but he's on his way too.
Lets get down to it. I've been single for.. 2 years? Maybe more? And can I tell you.... It's been GLORIOUS.
I know, I was that person too - the one who would look at those SingleByChoice girls and assume they just couldn't find someone. But after being one of them, I have to tell you..
Imagine doing what you want, when you want, with whomever you want. With no consequence. There is something very liberating of eating by yourself, or seeing that movie no one else wanted to see. The museum, theatre, drinking an entire bottle of wine while watching shitting B movies... //Sharknado - The Sharkening!!
I'm a busy girl, between lacrosse, hockey, and work - my free time is exactly that. MINE. I've dated, but none of those people ever stood a chance over my sister and her family, or the band. (My dad stepped back, I stepped up / long story) I can't imagine meeting anyone that I would like enough to make me give up these things. I've been finally doing what I want to do. All the things I always wanted to do.
I really like being a me, not a we.
I'm the happiest I have ever been. I hope you all are too.
//ThisIs40
How are you? How is this isolation pandemic bullshit treating you?
Can I tell you one thing I have learned? There is not one person from my dating history that I can honestly say I could have spent these last few months with. How terrible is that? I'm meaning, day in - day out, together 24 hours a day.
Nope.
But it's made me realize that maybe I'm just not cut out for it. I'm not the "Glued to the hip" kinda girl. I like the 'you do your thing, I do mine' thing. I couldn't imagine living with someone again. Except Spawn of course, but he's on his way too.
Lets get down to it. I've been single for.. 2 years? Maybe more? And can I tell you.... It's been GLORIOUS.
I know, I was that person too - the one who would look at those SingleByChoice girls and assume they just couldn't find someone. But after being one of them, I have to tell you..
Imagine doing what you want, when you want, with whomever you want. With no consequence. There is something very liberating of eating by yourself, or seeing that movie no one else wanted to see. The museum, theatre, drinking an entire bottle of wine while watching shitting B movies... //Sharknado - The Sharkening!!
I'm a busy girl, between lacrosse, hockey, and work - my free time is exactly that. MINE. I've dated, but none of those people ever stood a chance over my sister and her family, or the band. (My dad stepped back, I stepped up / long story) I can't imagine meeting anyone that I would like enough to make me give up these things. I've been finally doing what I want to do. All the things I always wanted to do.
I really like being a me, not a we.
I'm the happiest I have ever been. I hope you all are too.
//ThisIs40