You know what would be really fucking awesome?
If people actually came at me with real intentions. Actual honest intentions.
Seriously - this disposable society we live in is really tiring. Something breaks, or doesn't do what you want it to - you toss it out and get an upgrade. That's what we do now, with phones, relationships, people.. Its sad.
Just once I would appreciate a little honesty. I'd like someone to have a genuine interest in me.. not just using me for whatever personal gain they require, and then disposing of me once I no longer serve a purpose.
Like, no wonder women are so cynical.
If a dude came to me, and said: "Hey, I think you are cute, and nice to look at, so I'm gonna chat you up cause my wife is boring" or "Let's move in together but I'm going to cheat on you numerous times and make you feel crazy for questioning me" or "I'm just using you for a while, I have no real intention of actually sticking around, but I'm going to lie to you and tell you I love you so you don't leave" or "I think you're adorable, you're just what I need to make my Ex jealous so she will come back to me"
If someone actually came at us with their true intentions, then at least we could make that decision to entertain it or not. Then at least it is my fault for continuing on a dead end path. There's a point to this. And I'll get to it during another wonderful episode of shit she dated. Seriously, my life is a sitcom with shitty writers....
If people actually came at me with real intentions. Actual honest intentions.
Seriously - this disposable society we live in is really tiring. Something breaks, or doesn't do what you want it to - you toss it out and get an upgrade. That's what we do now, with phones, relationships, people.. Its sad.
Just once I would appreciate a little honesty. I'd like someone to have a genuine interest in me.. not just using me for whatever personal gain they require, and then disposing of me once I no longer serve a purpose.
Like, no wonder women are so cynical.
If a dude came to me, and said: "Hey, I think you are cute, and nice to look at, so I'm gonna chat you up cause my wife is boring" or "Let's move in together but I'm going to cheat on you numerous times and make you feel crazy for questioning me" or "I'm just using you for a while, I have no real intention of actually sticking around, but I'm going to lie to you and tell you I love you so you don't leave" or "I think you're adorable, you're just what I need to make my Ex jealous so she will come back to me"
If someone actually came at us with their true intentions, then at least we could make that decision to entertain it or not. Then at least it is my fault for continuing on a dead end path. There's a point to this. And I'll get to it during another wonderful episode of shit she dated. Seriously, my life is a sitcom with shitty writers....